Care about people… they are important and they have value!
“To Care” is one of the most beautiful action verb there is.
When you care for a person, he notices it immediately.
if she’s a visual person, he sees that you’re a good person and it raises her self-esteem.
If she’s an auditory person, the tone of your voice when you say“You have value” will tell her everything and if she can recognize a genuine and caring voice, it will raise her self-esteem.
IF she’s a kinestheeic person, you will feel loved. She may not answer back or show your appreciation because of pride for example, but you’ve fdone your work: you’ve just raised her self-esteem.
“I see you”
“You have value”
“You are unique”
“You are important”
“You contribution is important”
“You are special”
These are self-esteem messages that, if pronounced with a caring voice, will do a lot more than an enitre speech on self-esteem and self-confidence.
I ask you to use that to raise self-esteem in others. People need more self-esteem. People need to realize that their contribution is important and that they are unique and exceptional people.
Yours in Success,
Emmanuel
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Nice one Emmanuel, you are a good guy, I believe the easy way to care is through to appreciation, looking for things in everyday life to appreciate.
I heard a long time ago that the most precious thing that you can give to a person is your time, so anyone who gives you their time is giving you the most precious thing that they have - so appreciate it.
Keep up the good work my friend,
Stephen.
I loved your message today. God is so awsome in that he brings to you exactly what you need when you need it. I have a friend that needs help with his self esteem. This morning, I found a quote that I know will speak to him that I can give to him. This morning, I watched your video. I now know exactly what to do, and how to do it, to help him.
The sincerity in your persona is very clear. I wish the highest good for you.
Thank you. Blessings to you.
Anita
Hi there
just to say what a lovely, gentle yet poerful reminder about something so basic and yet so needed to be reminded of!
well done
Blessings to you
Helen
Hi Helen, Anita and Stephen,
I appreciate your inspirational words.
take care of yourself…
Emmanuel Segui
Emmanuel,
What a beautiful, powerful, inspirational message. I would add that when we interact with family, to greet them with a hug, at least 10 seconds long, really hug them. Be in the moment. Enjoy the caring,share the feeling. Looking someone in the eye, when speaking with them, is the highest form of respect in our culture, the U.S., but remember other cultures, it is more polite to downcast your eyes as a sign of respect. Loved the music with video.
God has blessed you and therfore all of us with your wisdom. Thank you.
hello,
it really shows you care, may all the gods choicest blessing be you and your good family
keep up the good work
sethu
Emmanuel,
You’ve said ir all. If human beings did practice towards the others the kind of careness you’ve tried to emphasise on your video, the world would be a much better and plesant one to live on.
All the very best to you,
Joaquim
Great job, Emmanuel. I enjoyed your message this morning and will try to follow your counsel. What you advise is so basic but so needed in our world. Thanks.
Sue
Hi Emmanuel!
What an inspiration you are to me. I have limited time to brouse personal mail but i sure appreciate each of the messages you send me.
Thanks alot
Mariam