The three most destructive thoughts when making new year’s resolutions.

Goals will always be an inevitable powerful way to succeed in
life. I mean, every success coach will tell you that.

But what prevents you from writing down your goals? Other people
or yourself?

Most of the time, the voice that keep saying that you can’t or
that you don’t deserve it is your own voice.

If it was only other people, you could remove yourself from these
people. It would be pretty easy. The reality is that we talk to
ourselves and most of this self-talk is negative.

I’ve found that for 90% of the cases, the following statement
will be true: People don’t write down their goals and dreams
because either they think they don’t deserve it or they think
it’s not possible for them or they think they are not capable of
reaching that goal or dream.

My friends, it all comes down to one thing: do you believe in
yourself? On a scale from 1 to ten, how much would you rate your
level of self-esteem?

The level of your self-esteem will have an impact on the number
of goals you write down, the number of goals you set and the
number of goals you achieve.

1. I don’t deserve it anyway! This has to do with you. This has
to do with your feelings of self-worth. “Do I deserve it, do I
have the permission to be a millionaire?” “Do I have permission
to remain centered, instead of stressed and depressed” Feel these
questions in your entire body. This is an essential step that
your whole body and mind needs to accept and integrate.

2. I am not capable! This next part concerns your plan that
you’ve outlined to achieve your goal. “Am I capable of taking
appropriate action, following the different steps I’ve set up to
succeed?” Once you’ve answered that question affirmatively,
integrate this in your body and mind. You don’t only need to know
it cognitively but also emotionally. Your body is not just made
up of a cognitive mind, but with emotions and feelings and the
whole system needs to accept it.

3. It’s not possible! Here we need to look at the path to reach
your goal. “Am I convinced that it is possible to achieve my goal
with these appropriate steps?” The path may be long or difficult.
You need to build a strong belief that it is possible to follow
the path that leads to great success. You need to persist and
never give up, even when it becomes tough.

You need to literally transform these limiting beliefs and sure
you can, because as they have been learned (through experiences,
ideas…), they can be unlearned, restructured and changed.

There are three basic elements to reach your outcome: you, the
plan or path, and the goal itself.

The belief you will develop for each element will form a winning
belief system that will empower you in achieving anything you
really want out of life.

These winning beliefs will give you more self-esteem and you will
soon become unstoppable.

When we talk about the law of attraction, it all comes down to
beliefs. When we talk about dreams, goals, independence, freedom,
it all comes down to beliefs.

If you believe it is easy for you to realize your dreams, if you
believe that you attract everything in your life for your best
and highest good, if you believe that you have an unlimited
potential, I mean, deep down, if you truly believe in yourself,
there is nothing you can’t do and you would set up goal after
goal, achieving each one of them, or not, for your best and
highest good.

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