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Hey everybody, I’m so happy today. This is my 5th wedding
anniversary.

For this, I’m doing a promotion of my book “Moving From Vision
to Action”. You can go to http://www.vision-to-action.com

I’m very excited. I love my wife. Of course, it has not always
been easy…. you know how it goes; we had misunderstandings,
we had hard times working together for our business. We resolved
our problems through the “Now, we need to talk” game. And we
talked a lot. That’s why I resolved to sharpen my NLP skills,
especially my communication ones. Yes, everybody needs to improve
their communication skills.

Anyway, I’m preparing a lot of products and new services around
communication, persuasion and influence, around public speaking,
self-esteem, parenting and leadership as well. You’ll be amazed at
what I’m preparing for you. Well, I’ve already given you a peak
with my site http://www.neurolinguisticprogrammingarticles.com
where I’m posting new articles (and soon new videos) on NLP.
You can read about 100 articles right now and download everyone
of them.

You can read now my latest article: NLP: You Can Change Your
Life Using This Ultra Simple Trick. Happy reading

Yours in Success, Always

Emmanuel

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NLP: You Can Change Your Life Using This Ultra Simple Trick

This title got your attention, didn’t it? Well,
first of all, this is not a trick and it is not a
simple as it seems.

Well, it could be actually. If a trick is
something that magicians use to perform magic and
surprise people, and at the beginning even
themselves, I guess, you can say that you can
change your life using this simple trick.

This simple trick is called “language”. Indeed,
when you use language, and everybody can afford to
learn more about how to use language more
effectively, you can cast spells, perform magic
and change your life in a matter of minutes; in
certain cases, in a matter of seconds.

By using language, you can reframe your ideas,
beliefs and understandings about life so it serves
you and empowers you to become more successful. By
using language you can change limiting beliefs and
limiting thinking that stops you from success,
abundance and happiness in your life.

When you become aware of your language and your
thoughts, you can just stop for a moment, look at
what you just said or thought and cast some spells
with simple questions that can change your day.

For example, and I will use part of the NLP
communication model to do that, if you catch
yourself saying: “I have to do …such and such”,
ask yourself these questions: “Do I really have to
do this?” “What will happen if I don’t do this?”
“What will happen if I do this?” “What won’t
happen if I do this? “What won’t happen if I don’t
do this?”

These are not questions you asked yourself very
often, that’s for sure. One marvelous consequence
about asking yourself a lot of questions,
especially if you just happen to feel a strong
negative emotion, is that as you step back and ask
yourself these questions, the negative emotions
has already diffused, even if you didn’t succeed
at answering all these questions. It serves as a
diversion technique that will enable you to focus
on something else for a moment. And when you come
back to the previous experience, you ask yourself:
“Why was I angry about already?”

This simple technique can change your day, in a
matter of seconds, if you ask yourself good
questions. A good question? But what is a good
question? What would happen if I ask myself bad
questions? “What would happen if I don’t ask
myself good questions?” Wow! That’s a good
question, isn’t it? I will let you answer and
leave you with that message.

There is no secret. And there is no ultimate
secret neither. There are just simple concepts or
patterns that we’re not aware of yet. And when you
become aware of them, your life changes and if you
could picture “change” as a diagram, or a curve,
it would grow exponentially.

And I would like to share with you a Free
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