Opportunity to Grow

Your parents, environment, friends and other influences have
shaped your life. Habits have been created, programs have been
setup and behaviors have been learned. In the first 10 to 12
years of your life, you have learned 80% of the habits you have
now.

De-programming negative behaviors and breaking bad habits can be
done. Change can occur and it’s actually not as difficult as it
seems to change some limiting thinking if you respect the change
cycle.

Here are 7 steps you will follow and 5 questions you will ask
yourself to effectively handle change in your life.

1. What’s your problem? Take some time to define the problem that
you’re having. Changes are that you’re pretty well aware of it
and you don’t need to dwell on this question more than 2 or 3
minutes.

2. What do you want? Most people know exactly what they don’t
want and have a hard time focusing on things they want. They
don’t want to smoke, feel pain in their back or be poor. But all
these statements put an emphasis on the words “smoking”, “pain”
and “poor”. Get rid of these words and take your time to define
what you really want. It’s a question that you will hear over and
over again by coaches, hypnotists or mentors. Yet, this is the
question that most people have a hard time answering. Start
answering by saying: “I am or I do or I have”. Define what you
want, define your affirmation.

3. What does it mean to you? Bring to your consciousness what it
means to you to achieve what you want. Feel it in your heart and
your soul. You’re the meaning maker. Create a meaning that you
believe in and that will solidify your life.

4. Why do I want it? What is your vision? What is the goal of
accomplishing this objective? What is important to you? Why do
you want what you want? How bad do you want it? Does it serve a
purpose? If yes, what is this purpose?

5. How will it make you feel or be? Think about how you will feel
when you get what you really want: freedom, peace, satisfaction,
contentment or maybe gratitude.

6. When you have answered these questions and felt the answer in
your heart and soul, you’re ready for a change. Repeat your
affirmation everyday, for 30 days at least, and notice, everyday
a change in your attitude, body, emotions or even philosophy of
life.

7. Visualize what you will see, hear and feel when you get there.
Visualize your purpose, your vision. Feel now what you want to
feel when you get there. Amplify the sounds, pictures and
feelings; make the images brighter and closer to you.

If you follow this plan, you will get what you want. And
remember, the most important steps are step 1 through 5. Answer
the questions with clarity. You will then be able to visualize
and program your subconscious mind for breathtaking success.

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Tags: NLP - Building Self-Confidence, NLP - Motivation, NLP - Subconscious Mind //